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The journey

When your child doesn't get a diagnosis

You waited months for the assessment, and the answer was 'no diagnosis'. That can feel like being sent back to the start, as if the struggles you see every day have been ruled not to count. They count. A diagnosis is a threshold decision made on one afternoon's evidence, not a verdict on your child's needs, and support in the UK doesn't require one.

For parents whose child was assessed but didn't receive a diagnosis, or whose referral was declined.

What to do, step by step

  1. Read what the report actually says

    Even without a diagnosis, the report should describe what the team found, your child's strengths and the areas where they need help. Those findings don't expire because a diagnostic threshold wasn't met. They're written, professional evidence of need, and you can use them with school and anyone else supporting your child.

  2. Ask the team to explain the decision

    Ask which criteria weren't met and why, what they'd recommend instead, and whether reassessment later makes sense, the NHS notes that for some children the signs simply aren't clear yet, and you may be asked to wait until your child is older to be assessed again. Get the answers in writing if you can.

    If you do not agree with the result (NHS)

  3. Keep school support going

    SEN support at school is based on your child's needs, and those haven't changed. Take the report's findings to the SENCO and ask for the support plan to be kept, or strengthened, around them. If your child's needs are significant, you can still ask your local authority for an EHC needs assessment: a diagnosis is not a requirement.

    SEN support at school (GOV.UK) Extra SEN help and EHC plans (GOV.UK)

  4. If you disagree, you have options

    You can ask the GP or the assessment team to refer your child to another team for a second opinion. Some families pay for an independent assessment outside the NHS, if you're considering that, check first how a private report would be used by your NHS services and school, as recognition varies. And if you feel the process itself went wrong, PALS at the NHS trust can help you raise it.

    PALS, Patient Advice and Liaison Service (NHS)

  5. Keep your records alive

    Needs change as children grow, and a 'no' now doesn't close the door: new evidence can support a re-referral later. Keep dating your notes, keep copies of school reviews, and keep the assessment report with them, the next conversation starts further forward than the last one did.

    Worth gathering

    • The assessment report and the written reasons given
    • Dated notes of new or changing difficulties since the assessment
    • School reviews, reports and SEN support plans

  6. Keep supporting the needs you can see

    You didn't imagine any of it, and the day-to-day work of supporting your child never depended on the label. Strategies target needs, not diagnoses: understanding exactly where your child struggles and where they shine is the foundation, with or without a diagnosis.

Common questions

Can my child be referred again?

Yes. If difficulties persist or new evidence emerges, ask your GP or school about a re-referral. Assessment teams expect some children to come back as they get older and the picture becomes clearer.

Was I wrong to push for an assessment?

No. 'Below the diagnostic threshold' does not mean 'fine'. You saw something real, the assessment report almost certainly confirms parts of it, and acting early is exactly what you're supposed to do.

Should we pay for a private assessment?

It's an option some families take. Before spending the money, check with your GP and your child's school how a private diagnosis would be recognised locally, acceptance varies between NHS services and local authorities.

Who can help us challenge decisions about school support?

IPSEA and your local SENDIASS both give free advice on SEN support, EHC needs assessments and appeals. Search your council's name plus 'SENDIASS' to find your local service.

Where next on the journey

Things changed?

Thinking about getting help for your child

How re-referral and fresh conversations with school and your GP begin.

Read the guide

Second opinion under way?

Waiting for an assessment

Back on a waiting list, how to make the wait work for you.

Read the guide

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Sources

  1. How to get an autism assessment (if you do not agree with the result) , NHS
  2. Children with special educational needs and disabilities (SEND): SEN support , GOV.UK
  3. Children with special educational needs and disabilities (SEND): Extra help , GOV.UK
  4. What is PALS (Patient Advice and Liaison Service)? , NHS